Love and heartbreaks
Ok gurls I decided to touch on a topic that is quite real to us 'women' and I know we have all experienced it or still yet to experience it.....I'm talking about 'HEARTBREAKS', yes I know, I know girls.....
I sometimes wish life was different in a sense that, we as young people/adults would easily live our lives the way God intended us to. By this I mean, you dont fall inlove with anyone until such time you ready to get married (wouldn't that be nice?)...you meet your prince charming, get married and live happily averafter...uuh, that sounds like a fairy-tale. But we know it is not like that at all. We get attracted to boys from our teenage years, we think they love us, we let ourselves fall inlove with them and they break our hearts over and over again.(ok I know this can happen either way but I'm focusing on 'women' today)
I know we have all experienced this one way or the other. The thing is when a relationship is in its early stages, you both seem so inlove and everything is heaven, as time goes on 3or 4 months down the line you start to see the real person coming out (this often happens when you dont befriend a person first; when you don't get to know a person but you think you love him/her...LOVE at FIRST site cases). And you start realising that this guy has been pretending all along. I know y'all ladies can relate to this because most of my friends relationships (me included) turn out this way and is where it ends. Even though it doesnt happen the same way with everybody but most of failed relationships relate to 'Fakeness/Pretence' from either side at the beginning of the relationship. At least that's my observation, I stand for correction.
My advice ladies is to 'Pray'; in addition to that is Never give yourself 100% to a guy, always leave a 'room for disappointment' because chances are if the guy you are dating is not future husband he is gonna break your heart. So be always prepared, dont hold your breath.
And when a guy you are seeing turns out to be a loser, walk right away no matter how much you 'think' you love him.....you are worth more than that. Do not stand nonsense from a guy you are not married to....not that you should take it from your husband either(that's a topic for another day).
I think we as women are the most beatiful creatures God ever made and he made us special. The sooner we realise how special and precious we are in his eyes, the better because we will see ourselves the way God sees us....And the guy God wants you to be with will be the guy that will see you the way God does. So let's not allow ourseves to be manipulated and used by guys, let's stand up and not take crap........instead focus on God. There is nothing powerful than the power of a praying women. So Pray on girls and wait upon him, there is nothing better than that.
(I know this sounds like a Women Empowerment article but that's not what it's all about, it's all about GOD.....)
Got nothing but LOVE for y'all, u know that....
HOLLA
posted by Dee's blog @ 12:24 PM
6 Comments:
Finally I'm the first comment...
Well I would have to say that guys only do what we allow them to do. If we consistantly allow them to break our hearts, then thats what they'll do knowing that end the end they're gonna get what they want from us. I must admit that we do, well I do, fall for guys too quickly. It's that "right now" generation my mother screams about all the time. Not willing to take the time to work at much of anything nowadays. Praying is anyones only outlet. It def'ly keeps you grounded and sane. But patience plays a HUGE role when tryin to find the ONE thats gonna be all that you want and need. God knows best so just wait on him and you'll see His wonders and you'll say "Well I'm glad that I waited for the right one. This man is truly a blessing." He'll work it out for you if you just believe and not worry about tomorrow b/c it may never come. Love yourself and pray hard ladies. GIRLPOWER!!!
Well im actually goin thru this rite now! I actually was his friend @ first but i wanted to be more! I got to know him pretty well (@ least i thought) and then after a year i gave myself to him thinking that sumthin wud become of it! well to make a long story short...he broke my heart and im still not over it completely! but i've been prayin about it non-stop and it really helps! I fall in love pretty quickly and when i do i love very hard! which i now see that that can cloud my judgement on who i believe is rite 4 me! ur rite sis! u gotta leave room 4 disappointment cuz it's gonna come whether we like it or not! so i've learned that just because i waited 1 year doesn't mean a thing cuz men can put on a fascade as long as they can to get wat they want and won't u give u an explaination becuz they feel they've done nuthin wrong! so im healing slowly but surely and love myself b4 i love another man! im prayin and waiting patiently 4 my one true love and this time i'll know wat to do!
Amen Meagan girl and you know we are in prayers for you, I'm also glad that God is showing himself strong in you. Prayer really works and i know God is moulding you to be even a greater strong woman,I thank him for making you this strong because I know what to went through is very hard....as I told you before that I was once subjected to it myself...so stay strong girl.
Tee,im trying so hard not to make this appear as a women empowerment subject and there you come shouting 'GIRLPOWER'..lol..yeah that's why I love you though...
And it's true what yo Mom says about 'the right now generation'...as you said, we really need to learn to be patient with God....it's not easy though, I know.
Thanx sis! i mean God never puts more on u than wat u can bear so im tryna get thru it cuz He said i can! I just hope dude doesn't do it to sumbody else! especially since he has a gurlfriend u wud think that he wudn't be messin wit folks heart like that! but that's a totally different subject! but we r truly the "rite now" generation cuz honey sumtimes u just need things "rite now"! LOL! but that's also the reason why this generation can't appreciate the finer things in life cuz they weren't taught to value it!
Oh my word gal that was deep, isn't it weird how much messed up our generation is? We really do not appreciate the finer things in life, we just want what we want and we want it now...(wow that rhymed)..lol..But yeah, we really should look at life on a different perspective,that's when we will be more fulfilled and appreciate little things that bring us closer to God.
Amen to all that was said.
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